Monthly Archives: March 2012

786…Soulmate or Twin Flame ?

What is a Twin Flame?

Twin flames, also called twin souls, are literally the other half of our soul. We each have only one twin, and generally after being split the two went their separate ways, incarnating over and over to gather human experience before coming back together. Ideally, this happens in both of their last lifetimes on the Twin Flames and Twin Soulsplanet so they can ascend together. So you probably haven’t had many lifetimes with your twin.

Each twin is a complete soul, not half a soul. It is their task to become more whole, balancing their female and male sides, and ideally become enlightened, before reuniting with their twin. This reunion is of two complete and whole beings. All other relationships through all our lives could be said to be “practice” for the twin, the Ultimate Relationship.

What is a Soulmate?

Soulmates are our soul family, the ones we do have many lifetimes and experiences with, who help us grow and evolve, create and dissipate karma. According to ancient wisdom, when the soul is “born” or descended from Source, it is created in a group. The souls in this group are our soulmates, ones who are very like us in frequency makeup. Then each of these souls is split into two, creating the twins.

A soulmate is someone you are close to at a soul level, and with whom you have had many shared experiences in different lifetimes, in various kinds of relationships — siblings, parent-child, best friend, as well as romantic relationships. There is a deep love for each other, and a spiritual bond that sets them apart from the superficiality of most other people in your life. Conversations are generally deep, about personal growth and service to make the world a better place. We can have many soulmates in our lives, and they come to us to help us grow spiritually.

Have I Met My Twin?

Twin Flame reunions are the most fulfilling relationships we can enter into as humans, on all levels. However, twin flame couples have been extremely rare on the planet, and for good reasons, which will be described later. Despite this, we are finding that more and more twins are finding each other now, because of the acceleration of spiritual transformation and opportunities for soul evolution we are all experiencing. People are evolving and learning and healing at such a fast rate that they are getting ready for their twins faster. What used to take lifetimes to learn and heal, people are now going through in years or even months. This is the astounding level of acceleration we and the planet are going through.

When twins get together, it is for some kind of spiritual service work. This is their primary reason for finding each other, because through their union a huge birthing of creative energy is released, to be used for their mission together. More and more twins are attempting to get together now to help the planet and humanity make a big shift forward in consciousness.

However, many of these attempts at reunion are unsuccessful because the individual people are not quite ready for the intensity of a twin flame union. It is more intense than any other union, and this intensity is at a soul level, not as much in the physical or even emotional bodies. This doesn’t mean that there isn’t a good attraction at those levels as well, but the strongest attraction is of spirit. This is one of the distinguishing characteristics of a twin soul. Many people think they have met their twin because the attraction is so intense, but it is a karmic attraction, one of need or bodily desire rather than the Divine Love of twins.

Your chance of meeting and staying with your twin depends on how evolved your soul is, and how much of your baggage from this and past lives you have cleared. The biggest reason twins have to separate after coming together is their individual emotional baggage. Because in the presence of your twin, there can be nothing between you, nothing blocking your closeness. This means that everything comes up for healing that you haven’t previously healed. Everything!

When twins reunite, both of them experience an acceleration of their spiritual growth and awakening. They get on the fast track of learning about esoteric wisdom and experiencing other states of consciousness. They usually haven’t been together all that often during their series of lives on the planet, and so their backgrounds may be different. Yet, there is a closeness and similarities of spirit that are almost uncanny, noticed in many ways, such as looking back at yourself when you look at your mate, and a remembering of the distant past when you first split up.

Guidance is strong with these relationships, and usually one or both have a good channel for communication with Spirit. Their connection is telepathic, and hugging each other is like coming home for nourishment.

May you meet Your Twin Flame…………..                                                                 

786…die in the Ocean of Love- the life of a sufi

Serigne Fallou,  Jalal & Sufi

“the sufi is the son of the moment.”- sufi proverb…. a sufi lives in the NOW. for a true sufi there is no past, present, future, day, or night. a sufi lives in a state beyond time and space in oneness with the Divine. a sufi lives in the 4th chakra-the heart-the closest place to find Allah. a sufi lives in the ocean of LOVE. in fact, a sufi is one HU has died in the ocean of love. a true sufi practices the alchemical science of taskiya tul nafs (purification of the soul). the life of a sufi is a life of remembrance, love and service(kidma) to God. a sufi is a worshiper of the Divine Light of Allah that dwells in the hearts of all living Beings. a sufi only see’s GOD. for a sufi there can be no other reality or existence other than GOD. for a sufi ALL religions are TRUE!!! a sufi can see the inner esoteric truth of all religions. a sufi is a christian to a christian, a jew to a jew, a hindu to a hindu, a buddhist to a buddhist, and a muslim to a muslim.

the first day eye met my beloved cheikh, Cheikh Betcio, in senegal he said to me “the only one closer to Allah than you, is the one HU loves Allah more than you.” the founder of our sufi order, Cheikh Ahmadou Bamba, wrote in one of his sufi poems, “my religion is the religion of LOVE.” love love love. the way of the sufi is love. love is a wave, that takes the traveler to its source, the Ocean, Allah. just as the wave and the ocean are one, love and Allah-God are ONE.

the Ocean of Love



drowned in a river

the river took me to the Ocean

the river was


the Ocean was


living in the ever-present now



the illusion of duality

seeing God as

the only Reality

eye live in love

love lives in eye

as me

 all EYE see

is love

is love


the Ocean

is GOD


Love is a flame in the heart that burns All leaving only the Beloved. When two people experience true Love they disappear and become One. In disappearing and becoming One, the two people lose all since of self. When the since of self disappears the only thing left is GOD-LOVE. The way of the Sufi is Love. true Love of God leads to death and dying in God. Sufi master Bawa Muhaiyadeen teaches that “when you are there, God is not. when you(ego) are not there, God Is.”  I die daily that God may live through me as ME. The beloved prophet Muhammad(peace be upon Him) once said “die before you die.” In this process of death before death, the lover loses all since of self(ego-separation-duality) and is resurrected into the conscious Oneness with God. Re-gaining the lost consciousness of our innate Oneness with God is the purpose of life. A seed is planted in the ground to become a Flower. Man-Woman come to earth to become -realize-know-remember their ONENESS with God. It is as if God is playing hide and seek with Himself from behind the hiding place of YOU. In union with Love, by the power of Love, God-LOVE wins the game, and YOU(lover) no longer exist.  God exist as U. Love reigns supreme! Love reigns supreme! Love reigns supreme! A Love supreme, a Love supreme, Allah supreme, Allah supreme… in the light of love—sufi ananda

786…a rose for TRAYVON

786…a Rose for Trayvon

Every rose has its thorn, the country is still torn

By ice cold stares from will we re-nig again

If eye had a son he would look like Trayvon

Emit Till was spat upon, Willie Lynch is alive and well

Strange fruit swings from a tree in Florida

As one family weeps, a nation slips into dankness

KKK members run for office while, military officers murder civilians

In a world of an eye for an eye

One day

We  will all be BLIND

This is a rose for Trayvon

May Allah bless your soul with the highest heaven

and bring peace to the hearts of your family, OUR family.

Living in the light of love—sufi


“Emptiness” is form. Form is “emptiness”. The Buddha

Eye have seen the Diamond Jewel in the Lotus. It is all empty. Crystal Clear Light. In a flash. Piercing the Veil of the mind. Thunder in Silence ! In the blink of an eye. 1000 lifetimes flashed. Eye can see as if eye never used my eyes before. If only the pen could write. If only the words could say what the Diamond Jewel in the Lotus is. Sometimes when eye walk it feels as if the ground is not there.

It is all a Divine stage play. You are the playwright, and all the actors in the dream of your life.  After writing the play, you went to sleep and began to dream. The dream became your life. Your life became the illusion of a false you that only exist in your mind. You created a supporting cast of parents and society that would support you, the main character, in the illusion of your life. There is no one in the play that is not you. You are the only one that exists. Being sound asleep you have mistaken your dream of illusion for a life of substance.

In fact just as the images in the dream are empty, you and your illusion of life are empty.

Diamond Jewel in the Lotus

Eye saw myself today in the form of a Buddhist Monk in an all orange robe. The monk sat in  stillness as eye recited my sun and moon zikr. When the monk stood up to walk away, eye noticed we were wearing the exact same shoes. As he walked directly in front of me, eye experienced time without time. Space without space. Empty. A flash of emptiness. Eye entered the state of the Diamond Jewel in the Lotus.

What is the Diamond Jewel in the Lotus?

these are the first few paragrahps of my new book “Diamond Jewel in the Lotus.” this short text is a modern day sutra for the transformation and elevation of consciousness. this text is an operative text.  you may ask what does that mean? the nature and designe of this text is to raise the consciousness of all who drink of its elixir! this text should be studied 1000x! for the best results/effect it should be read outloud once a day for 40 days.

the entire text is available at my intention was to wait 7 years befor publishing it. but spirit revealed to me that the time is NOW………….

LIVING IN THE LIGHT OF LOVE…. qiyamah abdallah salihu sufi…

786… 10 rules for a sufi- Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani

10 Rules for Spiritual Advancement Given by Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani                               

These rules are listed in Ghuniyat-ut Talibeen. Translation taken from: [1]

  1. Jokingly or seriously, don’t lie, because once your tongue avoids lying, Allah the Most High enlarges your chest and purifies your understanding and ilm (knowledge). That person becomes as if they don’t know what a lie is. Everything becomes truth to him. When he hears other people lie, the mureed should pray for them not to lie.
  2. The disciple should avoid cursing or harming humans and other created beings (from bugs to Jinn) because avoiding to curse and harm is the character of the good and loyal friends of Allah. If a person is like this, then Allah protects him or her and their end will be good. They will reach to a high level in Allah’s presence. Allah will protect them from being destroyed and protect them from harm. Allah rewards this person with being a blessing to human beings and close to Allah’s essence.
  3. The disciple has to keep his promise at all times unless he has a very good excuse. He must avoid not keeping his promise because not keeping a promise is in the same class as lying. As long as the servant of Allah tries to keep his/her promise the doors of generosity and blessings open to him/her. Loyal lovers of Allah love these people and they get a high station in Allah’s presence. It is better that he avoids the habit of making promise, so that he may not be guilty of the breach of promise.
  4. Even though a person has harmed or wronged him/her, the disciple should not pray for harm to come to him or curse him. Even if the mureed is wronged, he/she should not damn anyone, whether by word or action. The mureed should put up with this and be patient for Allah’s sake. This virtue takes the owner to high stations in this world and the hereafter. Such a person will be loved by far and near ones.
  5. The disciple should not blame other believers with attributing partners to Allah, with disbelief or cause trouble between people. This attitude is close to mercy and assists the mureed to reach high spiritual levels.
  6. The disciple should not sin inwardly (in the heart) or outwardly. He/She should avoid eating things that are not halal and protect all the organs of his body from sin. This state is the best achievement in this world that a mureed can cultivate for the eternal life.
  7. The disciple should earn his own livelihood and not be a burden to people who are independent of him/her. He should bear not only his own burden but also that of other people. Because of this virtue, the fear of Allah will make their worship complete and honorable.
  8. The disciple /dervish must not or should not expect anything from people or desire what belongs to others. He should be unmindful of things which he needs, for to have no need is the mark of honour and the distinguishing trait of piety of the pious. The biggest honour and wealth and the highest level is to put one’s whole trust in Allah only. Only with this attitude can the dervish be pious. Worship matures with this attitude. This is the state and action of one who give himself to Allah.
  9. A disciple/dervish should not, either truly or falsely, intentionally or unintentionally, by mistake or on purpose take Allah’s Name in vain or swear by the Name of Allah.
  10. The disciple/dervish should take to hospitality and humility. With humility, the dervish reaches high levels of spirituality and stays at this high level. This is the base of goodness and the highest level of goodness. Because of this quality the lovers of Allah stay with him in troubled times. The Walis (Saints) visit him in the unseen and aid him in his difficulty. Humility is seeing everybody you meet as higher than you and thinking that they might be closer to Allah than yourself.

If the disciple meets a person that is younger than himself/herself, he/she should say:

“This person did not rebel against Allah; I did. I am sure he/she is better than me.”

If the disciple meets a person who is older than himself, he/she should say:

“This person has worshipped Allah longer than I have.

He might have reached levels I have not been able to reach. Maybe Allah has let him know things I haven’t been allowed to know yet.”
If the disciple meets an ignorant person, then he should say:

“This person rebelled against Allah because he was ignorant; I rebelled against Allah knowingly.

I don’t know what is going to happen at the end to me or to him/her.”
If the disciple meets a person who is a disbeliever or agnostic, he should say:

“Maybe one day this disbeliever or agnostic will become a Muslim and do better deeds than myself. He might end up in a better place than I would and I might be misled and end up in a worse place than him.”

If a disciple acts with humility like this, then Allah the Most High saves him/her from hardships and makes the mureed reach to the levels of those who give advice for Allah’s sake. He will be the closest friend of Allah the Most High.

**** for more information and books on sufism please visit look for our new book/sutra “Diamond Jewel in the Lotus” to be published later this week….. Living in the Light of Love—sufi

By-Qiyamah Abdallah Salihu –sufi 786.SUFIWISDOM.COM
This text is for the transformation and elevation of conscious. To know the Self is to know God.

786…One Light conference

786…sufi will be speaking at the conference on the 7 levels of the soul this Saturday… 

One Light


One Light: Together We Are More

Themes will include;

                       Building Personal Relationship: What changes are necessary to elevate personal relationships. Neomoshan Nelson
Growing Our Children Well; Requirements for elevating the thoughts and attitudes of our children – Karen Jackson
Seven Principles of the Sufi: A Way to Elevate the Self – Abdallah Salihu – Sufi
The 99 percent movement – Economic Fairness in Elevating our Nation and World – Darryl Jordan.

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A Two Day Conference


Inspirational Weekend of Prayer, Meditation,

Discussions, WorkshopsCome let us gather together to pray and plan with purpose.

Date: March 24-25, 2012

Location: Comfort Inn, Absecon, New Jersey


Registration Fee: $35.00

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Make check or money order payable to: Dr. Mary Wade

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To Register Call or Email: Dr. Mary L. Wade – 215-941-0316

786… You should be God by NOW!!!

on the mystic path you will find some travelers who are completely INTOXICATED with God!!! this is the case for one of my teachers named Cheikh Muhaiyadeen in philadelphia. he is most definitely “not” here. one day he was seen riding his bike in west phily and a friend of mine asked him “where are you coming from Cheikh Muhaiyadeed?” my friend said the cheikh looked at him smiled and said “eye just came back from mecca!” the next time eye saw my friend he said “your teacher Cheikh Muhayadeen is definitely INTOXICATED. one day when eye was talking with Cheikh Muhayadeen in the kitchen, his mood dramatically changed. he looked at me and screamed in the loudest voice possible “you should be GOD by NOW!” after that he put his coffee cup down and walked quietly into his room without even saying  salam.

his words had a powerful effect on me. that night eye could not sleep one bit. eye thought about all of the experiences eye have had on this path, and all the mystical teachers eye had learned from.  finally eye came to the conclusion that, yes eye should be God by now. eye have been given all the keys to Divinity from my teachers/masters. eye have see Allah walking on the earth. eye have been in the heavens. so what is my problem eye thought????? time waits for no one. from that day forward eye decided to recommit myself to the path.

hand made sufi zikr beads available at

the path is very long and arduous. to travel the path a seeker must pack his/her bags with provisions/knowledge for the journey. the provisions for the journey are: tawheed-knowledge of the Oneness of God, –akidah correct belief in God, fiqh-understanding the laws of the way, and tassawuf– the science of perfecting the character and purifying the soul. the true Self is God. it is the false self that dethrones the King and takes over the throne. the sufi path is the way of Self/God Realization through the practice of the esoteric science of islam.  there are many esoteric paths that lead to Oneness with God. what is most important is that the seeker, chose ONE and stay committed to that path. all of the main religions have an esoteric doctrine. from the outside the religions look different. from the inner view, inside, all of the teachings are for God Realization. what can be difficult is finding a true master to take your hand and guide you on the PATH….

living in the light of love…. sufi

786…Wisdom of Aham Brahmasmi

Wisdom of Aham Brahmasmi.

“You are not the body, you are not the body, you are not the body.” 

How can I be a mere body when I am Brahman, the Absolute?

and people repeat this mantra ….. day in ….day out ….

thinking I am that only…… for years all together …..

in the name of religious or spiritual practices …..

without any confirmation coming from within…..

so then what is a real path ?

Aham Brahmasmi (ah-HUM brah-MAHS-mee) is a Sanskrit sutra

whose English translation is “the core of my being is the
ultimate reality, the root and ground of the universe, the source
of all that exists.”

it is like mother and woman ……

a mother is a woman but woman is not a mother but has a

possibility to be a be a mother ……

so all humans has a equal possibility to be……. that only. 

research that possibility….. with sensitive prayers ….

so what is a sensitive prayer?

to make every work a worship ……perform every ritual of life

with love that is true spirituality……or a sensitive prayerlike for me to write this article is a prayer and worship of
work….so should be for all of us even to read it also… even
every breath should be a prayer and thanks to cosmic spirit.

we all bring this possibility in our closed hands as seed of love

….. to plant this into our world to make it a tree ofeternal
happiness …… this tree of eternal happiness is that only ……..we mayrefer as
GOD , ALLAH , OM, or name of our choice…..

for a seed to become tree is a transformation … also

for a

woman to become mother is a transformation ….and alsofor a
human to became ray of this universe and light is a

a seed loses it’s identity to merge in soil to became a


we have to lose our identity or ego to merge with cosmic
identity….. then only we can say in a silent wishper…..

that I am….. that only……. or …… Aham Brahmasmi

love all

(c) ram0ram …….. freedom to right copy and share.

786…destiny & the secret of TRUE prayer

it is said in some mystic circles “if you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.” in the Holy Quran God has said “God plans and man plans, surely God is the best of planners.” my father once said to me “life is what happens to you while you make plans to do something else.” there once was a guru who had a favorite disciple. one night the guru dreamed that the angel of death would come for the disciple the next night. upon awakening from the dream he quickly summoned the disciple and told him to immediately go to the next village until he sent for him. without asking any questions, and having complete trust in the guru, the disciple left for the next village. ah ha, the guru thought, now that my disciple is gone when the angel of death comes here, he will be safe. that night the angel of death showed up with a smile on his face, which was most unusual for the angel of death who never smiled. the guru asked “you are a being with no feelings or emotions, why such a big smile on this night.” the angel of death replied “God plans and man plans, my appointment with your disciple is tomorrow night, in the next village.”saying this the angel vanished!

whatever will be must be. Gods plan for our life is sure to come to pass. the way to have peace, is to put your life in the hands of God, and trust in Her plan. at times we may think that our life is completely out of order. this is IMPOSSIBLE. our beloved prophet Muhammad(alay he salam) once said “the pen has been lifted, and the ink is dry.” the fate and destiny of mankind was written a long long long time ago, before we even came to this earth. some say that fate and destiny are sealed… prophet Muhammad left one important KEY on how a believer can change there fate/destiny. in one hadith(saying) prophet Muhammad(peace and blessings be upon him) said “the only thing that can out run destiny, is the prayer of the true believer.”

this leads one to think that by true prayer to God, the destiny can be changed…the next question for a seeker then is “what is true prayer?” true prayer is intention + focused thought/words + feeling. the secret of true prayer is feeling. without feeling, prayer is only lip service that does not go past the first heaven(the mind). feeling/emotion is the link between the conscious mind(man) and the subconscious mind(God). this type of payer reaches to true Self, which is God, on the subconscious level, thus producing and effect on the physical plane. there are 3 ways that God answers prayers. 1st-God answers it the way you have asked. 2nd-God answers it by removing something negative that was going to happen to you. 3rd- God gives it to you in the next life. when a prayer is answered in the 2nd or 3rd way we ofter think that the prayer was not answered because we did not see the result/change on the physical plane. it is said by the wise “sometimes when God wants to punish us, He gives us what we ask for.”

living in the light of love…sufi

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786…Approaching Divinity

786…..Approaching Divinity

 Becoming transparent

eye manifest divinity

me, myself, and eye,

Form the Holy Trinity

in oneness

my essence knows no multiplicity

The vibration of light slowed down creates matter

Meditation stills the chatter

of the mind

The first rung of the ladder

of self-realization

is hard to find

It lies at the base of the spine

  eye have been in heaven several times

When the serpent started to climb

eye was intoxicated by celestial wine

Engulfed by the light

in reality eye do not exist

The lover dies in the love of the fire of the beloved’s kiss

I am that I am

eye am approaching divinity

18,000 universes exist inside of me

The self of the Self can only be measured by infinity

Definitely, definitively eye am approaching divinity

Seeing myself beyond the body on the astral plane of the soul

was completely perplexing

Etheric light body

kissed by 3 immortal fish

from the see of darkness 4 gates in in the sky opened

Some things are not to be spoken

Extreme states of bliss preceded gnosis

disappearing in oneness from the closeness

Becoming transparent

eye manifest divinity

me, myself, and God

form the Holy Trinity

in oneness

My essence knows no multiplicity

The vibration of light slowed down made me. –


from the introduction of my book “Be Still and Know.” available at