786… 10 rules for a sufi- Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani

10 Rules for Spiritual Advancement Given by Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani                                         https://i0.wp.com/farm1.static.flickr.com/35/74113328_6292092a52.jpg

These rules are listed in Ghuniyat-ut Talibeen. Translation taken from: [1]

  1. Jokingly or seriously, don’t lie, because once your tongue avoids lying, Allah the Most High enlarges your chest and purifies your understanding and ilm (knowledge). That person becomes as if they don’t know what a lie is. Everything becomes truth to him. When he hears other people lie, the mureed should pray for them not to lie.
  2. The disciple should avoid cursing or harming humans and other created beings (from bugs to Jinn) because avoiding to curse and harm is the character of the good and loyal friends of Allah. If a person is like this, then Allah protects him or her and their end will be good. They will reach to a high level in Allah’s presence. Allah will protect them from being destroyed and protect them from harm. Allah rewards this person with being a blessing to human beings and close to Allah’s essence.
  3. The disciple has to keep his promise at all times unless he has a very good excuse. He must avoid not keeping his promise because not keeping a promise is in the same class as lying. As long as the servant of Allah tries to keep his/her promise the doors of generosity and blessings open to him/her. Loyal lovers of Allah love these people and they get a high station in Allah’s presence. It is better that he avoids the habit of making promise, so that he may not be guilty of the breach of promise.
  4. Even though a person has harmed or wronged him/her, the disciple should not pray for harm to come to him or curse him. Even if the mureed is wronged, he/she should not damn anyone, whether by word or action. The mureed should put up with this and be patient for Allah’s sake. This virtue takes the owner to high stations in this world and the hereafter. Such a person will be loved by far and near ones.
  5. The disciple should not blame other believers with attributing partners to Allah, with disbelief or cause trouble between people. This attitude is close to mercy and assists the mureed to reach high spiritual levels.
  6. The disciple should not sin inwardly (in the heart) or outwardly. He/She should avoid eating things that are not halal and protect all the organs of his body from sin. This state is the best achievement in this world that a mureed can cultivate for the eternal life.
  7. The disciple should earn his own livelihood and not be a burden to people who are independent of him/her. He should bear not only his own burden but also that of other people. Because of this virtue, the fear of Allah will make their worship complete and honorable.
  8. The disciple /dervish must not or should not expect anything from people or desire what belongs to others. He should be unmindful of things which he needs, for to have no need is the mark of honour and the distinguishing trait of piety of the pious. The biggest honour and wealth and the highest level is to put one’s whole trust in Allah only. Only with this attitude can the dervish be pious. Worship matures with this attitude. This is the state and action of one who give himself to Allah.
  9. A disciple/dervish should not, either truly or falsely, intentionally or unintentionally, by mistake or on purpose take Allah’s Name in vain or swear by the Name of Allah.
  10. The disciple/dervish should take to hospitality and humility. With humility, the dervish reaches high levels of spirituality and stays at this high level. This is the base of goodness and the highest level of goodness. Because of this quality the lovers of Allah stay with him in troubled times. The Walis (Saints) visit him in the unseen and aid him in his difficulty. Humility is seeing everybody you meet as higher than you and thinking that they might be closer to Allah than yourself.


If the disciple meets a person that is younger than himself/herself, he/she should say:

“This person did not rebel against Allah; I did. I am sure he/she is better than me.”

If the disciple meets a person who is older than himself, he/she should say:

“This person has worshipped Allah longer than I have.

He might have reached levels I have not been able to reach. Maybe Allah has let him know things I haven’t been allowed to know yet.”
If the disciple meets an ignorant person, then he should say:

“This person rebelled against Allah because he was ignorant; I rebelled against Allah knowingly.

I don’t know what is going to happen at the end to me or to him/her.”
If the disciple meets a person who is a disbeliever or agnostic, he should say:

“Maybe one day this disbeliever or agnostic will become a Muslim and do better deeds than myself. He might end up in a better place than I would and I might be misled and end up in a worse place than him.”

If a disciple acts with humility like this, then Allah the Most High saves him/her from hardships and makes the mureed reach to the levels of those who give advice for Allah’s sake. He will be the closest friend of Allah the Most High.

**** for more information and books on sufism please visit http://www.786sufiwisdom.com. look for our new book/sutra “Diamond Jewel in the Lotus” to be published later this week….. Living in the Light of Love—sufi

By-Qiyamah Abdallah Salihu –sufi 786.SUFIWISDOM.COM
This text is for the transformation and elevation of conscious. To know the Self is to know God.

About Cheikh Sufi

786 Cheikh Sufi has a BS degree in Biology from St. Augustine’s College and a MS degree from Indiana University in Secondary Education. He is a member of Omega Psi Phi fraternity. Sufi is an initiate of more than one sufi order and system of Self Realization. He is the first representative of his master, Serigne Saliou Mbacke, here in the west. He has traveled to Senegal west Africa 8 times, since 1996, to study the science of the inner path. He lived in Senegal for 2 years, from 2002-2004 , to complete his training on the mystic path. He has self published 11 books with more to come. He is the founder of MATLABUL FAWZANI INSTITUTE of online studies in Sufism, Arabic and Wolof here in the west. He provides the services of: sufi initiation, spiritual guidance, talisman making, spiritual blessing, magic/curse removal, and house blessing and purification. He is available for lectures, story telling and workshops around the country and abroad.

Posted on March 20, 2012, in Cheikh Ahmadou Bamba, consciousness, God, Islam, love, meditation, mystic, Rumi, self knowledge, Self Realization, soul, spirit, spiritual, sufism, wisdom and tagged , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.

  1. Durwood Muhammad

    ASA! Thank you for all the writings that you have sent,as eye always learn from them and eye read them often.

  2. Very interesting, thanks for sharing this universal Truth. The first picture is amazingly suggestive picture. Wonderful shot!

  3. I just wana ask tht we admit Islam spread in subcontinent through Sufism, so i wana ask tht every muslim can be a sufi or he ir she is a sufi. Secondly i wana ask tht ppl refer to sufism is as extremism, it is right or wrong?

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